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                                                      PART C.

Communication is the gift of expressing oneself to another bringing clarity  and understanding.

As simple as this may sound, it could be very complex for some people due to presupposition. 

According to the dictionary, a presupposition is background belief relating to something someone said and generally will remain a necessary assumption whether the utterance is placed in the form of an assertion, denial, or question. 

For instance, at the end of a resent counseling session, I ask the husband if he would like to say anything to his wife, he looked her straight in the eyes and said to her very slowly, "Honey I love you with all my heart". Her immediate response was, " What do you mean by that"?  Whether she had doubts or not, she couldn't hear his heart.

Communication to some, believe that they must be satisfied on their terms and conditions, and if no one else sees it nor understand their way, there is no resolve to the problems.

Not having it your way, doesn't mean the conversation was not healthy, it simply means you are beginning to listen and understand how someone else is thinking and feeling by communicating.

Also, if the communication is intense, not having the last word does not mean defeat, but the opportunity to continue another time.

MAKE RICH YOUR LIFESTYLE THROUGH COMMUNICATION.

DCB.