POOR COMMUNICATION DESTROYS RELATIONSHIPS.

For the last 18 years  as a Christian Psychologist, I have counseled many couples with marital problems. 

The problems whether small or insurmountable, all originated with how they communicated to each other.

Communication requires SACRIFICE, and sacrifice demands HUMILITY and SINCERITY OF THE HEART.

When we approach a situation that is causing a conflict in a relationship, usually one partner will evade the truth by creating a louder noise or distraction while the other yearns to restore.

I believe the true soul of every individual wishes the forces within that restrain, could be broken.  Being free from that restraint means, that he or she is willing to sacrifice shame and embarrassment to fix the problem.

FORGIVENESS  is usually the lock that opens or shuts this door. If this door is not opened, the couple's union inevitably will be destroyed. 

Confessing your faults or wrongdoing to your partner is a sacred covenant that requires forgiveness.

This is not always easy for some people, however  the destroying of a relationship pivots on TRUE LOVE which is always about SACRIFICE AND FORGIVENESS.

MAKE RICH YOUR COMMUNICATION, AND AVOID THE PITFALLS OF POVERTY.

DCB