POOR  COMMUNICATION  DESTROYS    RELATIONSHIPS         

                                                      PART C.

Communication is the gift of expressing oneself to another bringing clarity  and understanding.

As simple as this may sound, it could be very complex for some people due to presupposition. 

According to the dictionary, a presupposition is background belief relating to something someone said and generally will remain a necessary assumption whether the utterance is placed in the form of an assertion, denial, or question. 

For instance, at the end of a resent counseling session, I ask the husband if he would like to say anything to his wife, he looked her straight in the eyes and said to her very slowly, "Honey I love you with all my heart". Her immediate response was, " What do you mean by that"?  Whether she had doubts or not, she couldn't hear his heart.

Communication to some, believe that they must be satisfied on their terms and conditions, and if no one else sees it nor understand their way, there is no resolve to the problems.

Not having it your way, doesn't mean the conversation was not healthy, it simply means you are beginning to listen and understand how someone else is thinking and feeling by communicating.

Also, if the communication is intense, not having the last word does not mean defeat, but the opportunity to continue another time.

MAKE RICH YOUR LIFESTYLE THROUGH COMMUNICATION.

DCB.

                      POOR COMMUNICATION DESTROYS RELATIONSHIPS.

                                                           Part B

The story in scriptures about a nation of people building a tower to reach God and to preserve themselves, came thumbing down because there were no permission to build on that site, neither did the architect obtained the necessary building permits. ( Genesis :11.)

God looked down, observed their activities, and realized that their determination was strong, they were working as one for their cause, they communicated with each other, and nothing would stop them.

His divine plan of stopping their project was not an earthquake, which definitely would have pushed back their time for completion and celebration, neither did He send an inspector to post a STOP WORK sign somewhere on the building site. 

He decided the best way to break this union of oneness was to confuse their language. 

No communication destroyed their tower. They had to abort their mission...

So to with life today, if you cannot communicate and get understanding, your dreams, hopes, aspirations for your family will fall apart.

Their are people in your life to make you better at what you do, but not communicating hinders the process. 

The many sacrifices you have already made for your progress can only be destroyed by not sharing the blueprints that has been designed by the CHIEF ARCHITECT AND BUILDER.

LOVE, COMMUNICATE, FORGIVE AND BUILD.

DCB.

                    POOR COMMUNICATION DESTROYS RELATIONSHIPS.

For the last 18 years  as a Christian Psychologist, I have counseled many couples with marital problems. 

The problems whether small or insurmountable, all originated with how they communicated to each other.

Communication requires SACRIFICE, and sacrifice demands HUMILITY and SINCERITY OF THE HEART.

When we approach a situation that is causing a conflict in a relationship, usually one partner will evade the truth by creating a louder noise or distraction while the other yearns to restore.

I believe the true soul of every individual wishes the forces within that restrain, could be broken.  Being free from that restraint means, that he or she is willing to sacrifice shame and embarrassment to fix the problem.

FORGIVENESS  is usually the lock that opens or shuts this door. If this door is not opened, the couple's union inevitably will be destroyed. 

Confessing your faults or wrongdoing to your partner is a sacred covenant that requires forgiveness.

This is not always easy for some people, however  the destroying of a relationship pivots on TRUE LOVE which is always about SACRIFICE AND FORGIVENESS.

MAKE RICH YOUR COMMUNICATION, AND AVOID THE PITFALLS OF POVERTY.

DCB

SEPTEMBER 21st. 2017.

On August 30th 2017, upon entry to my home, one foot inside, I heard the Lord speaking to me concerning what was about to happen.

"I WILL VISIT THE ISLANDS AND THE NATIONS WITH STRENGTH AND FORCE, FOR THEY HAVE TURNED ASIDE OF ME."

This was so clear, I shared it with my wife and we began to pray for the Islands and Nations.

I Shared it with our local church, and they shared the message with their families and friends.

Families in Dominica, Antigua, Barbuda, St Marten, St. Croix, St. Thomas, Nevis and Mexico received the message. 

A visit of Strength and Force is to remind us all that we are not in control of our lives, and that we are living in a time of SPECIAL GRACE. 

One can resist Grace, but SPECIAL GRACE has a short time limit to live among wickedness when a loving God has already provided a plan of redemption through Jesus Christ.

He has also spoken to me of what is to come next, that will affect the economy of the world. 

I WILL SHARE WHEN IM RELEASED TO DO SO....

DCB.

UPDATE SEPTEMBER 8th 2017.

As to my resent post concerning Matthew 24:19.  The scripture says "WOE to those who are pregnant and nursing babies" 

Jesus spoke using analogies, metaphors and parables.

" Woe" means, a cause of sorrow or misfortune. This does not mean that The  Lord does not love mothers and their babies.

This speaks of the timing of God for His will to be fulfilled on earth.

His loving kindness in end time disasters, is a reminder for everyone to prepare and get ready for Christ return.

The metaphor used in the scripture tells us; 

First, as a mother plans for the birth of her unborn child, she will experience the birth pains and discomfort to deliver. That timing cannot be altered, 

THE BABY MUST COME.

Secondly, she wonders, pray and think about the child's future. Daily care, bedroom, clothing, school, college, Success etc.

You cannot take this away from a mother. God used this as a metaphor to prepare us for some sorrowful time on earth beginning now. 

Matthew 24:8. THE BEGINNING OF SORROWS. 

The revelation now is to realize that there is no guaranteed future without God, as His timing of visitation is now.

Even though it will be a sorrowful time on earth, is a stark reminder of His promise to return for those who have prepared themselves. 

Some people will not be able to endure everything that is about to come, they may lose everything, and try to take their own lives. 

THAT IS NOT THE ANSWER.  REPENTANCE AND GETTING READY IS.

The Spirit of the Lord has spoken to me on August 30th. 

He said, 

"I WILL VISIT THE ISLANDS AND THE NATIONS WITH STRENGTH AND FORCE, FOR THEY HAVE SET ASIDE FROM ME".

DCB.

UPDATE SEPTEMBER 8th 2017.

As to my resent post concerning Matthew 24:19.  The scripture says "WOE to those who are pregnant and nursing babies" 

Jesus spoke using analogies, metaphors and parables.

" Woe" means, a cause of sorrow or misfortune. This does not mean that The  Lord does not love mothers and their babies.

This speaks of the timing of God for His will to be fulfilled on earth.

His loving kindness in end time disasters, is a reminder for everyone to prepare and get ready for Christ return.

The metaphor used in the scripture tells us; 

First, as a mother plans for the birth of her unborn child, she will experience the birth pains and discomfort to deliver. That timing cannot be altered, 

THE BABY MUST COME.

Secondly, she wonders, pray and think about the child's future. Daily care, bedroom, clothing, school, college, Success etc.

You cannot take this away from a mother. God used this as a metaphor to prepare us for some sorrowful time on earth beginning now. 

Matthew 24:8. THE BEGINNING OF SORROWS. 

The revelation now is to realize that there is no guaranteed future without God, as His timing of visitation is now.

Even though it will be a sorrowful time on earth, is a stark reminder of His promise to return for those who have prepared themselves. 

Some people will not be able to endure everything that is about to come, they may loose everything, and try to take their own lives. 

THAT IS NOT THE ANSWER.  REPENTANCE AND GETTING READY IS.

The Spirit of the Lord has spoken to me on August 30th. 

He said, 

"I WILL VISIT THE ISLANDS AND THE NATIONS WITH STRENGTH AND FORCE, FOR THEY HAVE SET ASIDE FROM ME".

DCB.

Here is an eye opener. 

There are 3 hurricanes in the Caribbean right now.

The name IRMA means "sorrow/ Pain"

The Name JOSE means "Jehovah shall Increase"

The third hurricane KATIA means "Pure"

We are experiencing "THE BEGINNING OF SORROWS" MATHEW 24:8.

The world is entering a period of SORROWS that will only INCREASE  in order to produce a PURE BRIDE for the BRIDEGROOM.

Matthew 24:19 says "WOE to those who are pregnant and nursing babies" 

A pregnant woman and a nursing mother can only be hopeful for a good and bright future for their children, however the time has come for the birth pains that will produce children for God.

DCB....SEPT. 6th 2017.