11/23/2015
Dr. C. Branker
Reacting wisely to difficult situations is a course and an art by itself.
Keeping a cool head in heated moments is mastering the art of self control and human relations.
Someone can push all your wrong buttons triggering your emotions. But the ability to control yourself, reveals the wisdom and understanding you possess.
Two hot heads could never bring lasting results to any problem by shouting at each other. The ability for one to remain calm and maintain self control is not weakness, looser nor being coward.
Almost every falling out and breaking up of relationships started with the exchange of words.
There were no agreement of pause or push button to stop the situation.
Every gas station has a RED button somewhere close to the pumps that says
'PUSH BUTTON TO AVOID SPREAD OF FIRE'.
I'm sure many customers have never seen this button, but in most states it is the law to have this button at the gas pumps.
Two hot heads could never have a peaceful home, unless one embraces the spirit of tranquility, kindness and forgiveness; these are the treasures of life.
DCB.
That's awesome! Really helps you evaluate your part in an argument and what you can do to end it.
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