6/11/2015
Dr. C. Branker
Why are young men afraid of marriage?
The world has truly changed concerning responsibilities and the role of a man.
Perhaps the lack of fatherhood and mentoring are to blame.
A Young man today is , not properly educated nor trained about his manhood; therefore his priorities are misaligned.
He gets training in cars, sports and works-out at the gym, but never the coaching and preparation of how to love and treat a woman.
Taking a wife to care for, love and protect are not the things on his mind. Most young men today are looking for a partner who brings equal financial share to the table; while he still maintains his egotistic boyhood lifestyle.
Most women are still hopeful and praying that the Lord would bless them with the right partner, who they can give all their love.
The compromise it takes from a woman to have a relationship today, is sometimes way below her customs and integrity.
Young men lay out many conditions to the relationship while they are courting: while the woman is trying to meet those conditions because of her love for him, little change is taking place in his life.
Some young men, do know how to court, but they make good company. They are completely void of the total responsibilities of caring for a wife.
A woman should first notice how well a man takes care of himself,
secondly, that he is not self-centered and proud.
Thirdly, he is willing to take on the responsibility of caring for a wife, sharing his life with her and loving her to the end more than anyone else.
DCB.
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